The desire to better oneself

Is it possible? Yes. But will one do it? Depends, Do you think you are worth it?  I guess I should start over. I sometimes look at myself  and think, "I could be so much better". There is this level of greatness I wish I could achieve but have not reached yet. Will I ever reach it? I wish I could change so many things about myself, but its funny how I never see the good, only the bad. As women, do we need to validate the good about ourselves more. Do we focus to much on the bad? Yes! So how do we change? This is to deep of a question to be solved at 11pm. I think I will go to bed and dream about the answer.