Challenging Circumstances Immature People

My God, there are some people out there that think nothing of others and everything of themselves. I long to bless and serve them, but I have my limits, and they have been reached. I have reached the end of my patience, it is now time for God to take over and show me how to act and treat these girls, God give me patience and help me know how to set and keep my boundaries and not react to peoples emotional states. My God, I know so much good is coming from these circumstances he has put me in, I am so happy that through trials God brings me closer to him, he is more real and lovely to me now than ever. Yet, I desire peace, I desire to live with women who are servants who are outward focused, not inward focused, who desire to see the world be reached with the gospel, who desire to love god and love others, who can fight this battle with me, not drain me completely.